5) Aperature controls, in shooting weddings and the such, do i need to adjust this? Besides trying to change the field of depth?
Jordan, different cameras may have different equations for determining exposure when in the "auto" mode, but in genera, when you have a white or bright background, your camera will tend to underexpose your subject. When you have a dark background, your camera will tend to overexpose your subject.
During ceremonies, I'll have Jean stand where the bride will be standing, zoom in on her face and lock down exposure for her camera and any static cams that will have that shot. This means she may be somewhat underexposed on the processional, but better that than being off for the whole ceremony.
Besides, I am the one who moves to the center to catch the main part of the processional. I manually adjust my camera's focus and exposure as needed. My fingers know where the controls are and I've practiced so that I can change them without jiggling the camera or unduly diverting my attention. Jean can do this also, but she is not confident enough (even after four years) to do this during a ceremony.
You can often get away with automatic focus/exposure controls, but sometimes you just cannot. My feeling is that a true professional takes total control over his images, leaving little to chance.
(By the way, depth of field is usually the least of my concerns!)